Every thing that happens around and to you is just the right thing for you at that time. If you can approach life from that perspective you ensure that it is so. Leave out the intellect and the imagination, it must be heart felt. Operating at that level, you create it. Catastrophes, love, joy, pain. The complete spectrum of human experience. Why would we want to limit our timeless selves? Birth, bliss, innocence, learning, knowledge, decay, death. It's all the joy of physical experience. GAME OVER TRY AGAIN?