MAKING LOVE  Imagine having the ability to experience another person’s feelings as one's own. Imagine making love to your beloved partner using this ability. You feel the sensations your hands make on your beloved's body as your beloved feels it. You feel the effect that your actions are having, as if those sensations and feelings were your own. How would you make love? IMAGINE massage exploring play titillation excitation fulfilment STOP & IMAGINE   Now realize that you already have this ability It is your self that is the beloved Have you ever truly made love to yourself? Was it like your imaginings previously? No? Why not? Don't you love yourself? Are you not worth making love to? If we can't even make love to our own beloved self, how can we truly make love to a beloved other?