Allow another their point of view
Do not judge your fellow man or woman for not being 'spiritual' or positive enough. For all beings are spiritual beings, whether they know it or not. All beings have had many lifetimes, whether they know it not. Your task is to live a life of joy. If in the process you are able to share your experience and your vision of the world with another, then do so. But do not think badly of them if they do not see your point of view. A point of view is exactly that. Truth is relative to the individual, and how you experience the world or even peanut butter, is quite different to how another experiences it. Each time you move into the lack of allowing, you stop the flow of the life force energy through your system. Not only does this take you further away from your source, from your inner self, it also makes it more difficult for you to create that which you are wanting.

Victims and perpetrators
Judgment has an emotional charge to it. It makes one person a victim, and another a villain. Your reactions are compulsive. You have no choice. Discernment allows you to observe, analyze with your heart, and act accordingly. Judging is seeing yourself as superior to another person. Discernment is seeing others clearly. When you judge, you create painful consequences for yourself. You cut yourself off from others, except those whom you judge worthy of your presence. You deprive yourself of the richness that the Universe continually offers you.

Stop Judging and you Stop Struggling
In order to eliminate living life in struggle, do not judge yourself, and do not judge others. Instead of judging a creation as wrong, evil or bad, see it as a divine creation just because it exist. If it exists it is the Creator expressing. It is valid, otherwise it could not exist. You may determine that this is not the creation you choose to express upon your world. Embrace it and transform it. If your ego causes you to ridicule this suggestion, ask yourself, 'Is what you are doing now bringing you your desired existence of life upon your planet'?

Once you create something it exists forever. Your creations will always exists, and so you cannot just send them away and expect them to be forgotten. You can't release a creation to be sent 'out there' somewhere. When you birth something, it belongs to you. You can deny it, you can disown it, but it will not change a thing. It belongs to you. Your only choice is to transform it. To transform, first you have to accept its existence as divine. You must accept your creation as what you created, and since you are perfect, your creation is perfect, but now you may wish to transform it into something that is more enjoyable.

Judgments will always hold a vibration in place until it is healed by love. Love is the true power and the answer to your search and struggles. If you were to choose to send love to transform all creations into something that brings about less struggle and more enjoyment you would see the beginning of what you truly desire in life.